Taking the Initiative to Show Gratitude

Taking the Initiative to Show Gratitude

Bob O'Rourke holding his Gentleness certificate from the staff at Good Samaritan Society Fort Collins Village
Bob O'Rourk with character certificate

After he had bypass surgery in early 2009, Bob O'Rourke entered the Hoeger House skilled After he had bypass surgery in early 2009, Bob O'Rourke entered the Hoeger House skilled nursing facility. He noticed the staff's friendliness. He never heard any "back-biting" among the staff. And he observed a consistency of care he attributed to the tenure most staff members have.

In 2008, O'Rourke's wife, Lou, passed away after an illness that required stays in other care facilities. O'Rourke remembers having to watch the staff's attention to Lou and reestablish expectations as caregivers left the facility and new caregivers were hired.

Take the First Step

Bob O'Rourke's character certificate (larger image below)
Bob O'Rourke's character certificate (larger image below)

As O'Rourke neared the end of his stay, he talked to Marsha Kitterman, the director of nursing at Good Samaritan Society Fort Collins Village, which includes Hoeger House. She attributed the differences to Good Samaritan's effort to cultivate good character.

O'Rourke did not know the Character First! vocabulary, but he wanted to thank particular individuals for the way they cared for him. So he dictated what he wanted to say, and Kitterman suggested a character quality and made up the certificates. Kitterman also arranged with human resources director Diana Schultz to present the certificates at an April 13 staff meeting.

Get the Help You Need

As the meeting began, Schultz called Kitterman and O'Rourke forward, and with O'Rourke sitting nearby, Kitterman read, "Thank you Darryl [McBroom] for all the prompt, courteous consideration you gave me while transporting me all over town. You always did your best to meet my needs. Thank you very much."

He recognized occupational therapist assistant Pam Cipri for her gentleness. "Pam is always very professional. She is skillful, helpful, and empathetic. She has helped prepare me for the everyday tasks that I will encounter when I go home."

Be Thorough

The Good Samaritan Fort Collins Village employs about 70 people and has 58 skilled nursing beds, 28 assisted living apartments, and one senior living duplex
Good Samaritan Fort Collins Village

O'Rourke also recognized physical therapists Bob Goodman and Leann Walters; registered nurses Marjorie Morningstar, Janet LeGros, Samantha Sabo, Mark Portel, and Amanda Faycosh; and certified nursing assistants Jerica Trevena, Missy Daves, and Alexys Kippenhan.

When asked why he didn't read and present the certificates himself, Bob said, "I couldn't have kept myself together to do that."

In conclusion, O'Rourke received a certificate recognizing him for gentleness-"showing consideration and personal concern for others." Several staff members added their own notes to the certificate.

Night nurse Janet LeGros said, "Even though he was very sick, he always looked at each person as an individual and as someone that he wanted to get to know, and he made you feel special in everything he did."

By Robert Powell with Loren Paulsson

 


Bob O'Rourke's Character Certificate
 from the Good Samaritan Society (page 1)

Bob O'Rourke's character certificate

(Page 2)

Bob O'Rourke's character certificate


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Bob O'Rourke holding his Gentleness certificate from the staff at Good Samaritan Society Fort Collins Village
Bob O'Rourk with character certificate
After he had bypass surgery in early 2009, Bob O'Rourke entered the Hoeger House skilled After he had bypass surgery in early 2009, Bob O'Rourke entered the Hoeger House skilled nursing facility. He noticed the staff's friendliness. He never heard any "back-biting" among the staff. And he observed a consistency of care he attributed to the tenure most staff members have.

In 2008, O'Rourke's wife, Lou, passed away after an illness that required stays in other care facilities. O'Rourke remembers having to watch the staff's attention to Lou and reestablish expectations as caregivers left the facility and new caregivers were hired.

Take the First Step

Bob O'Rourke's character certificate (larger image below)
Bob O'Rourke's character certificate (larger image below)
As O'Rourke neared the end of his stay, he talked to Marsha Kitterman, the director of nursing at Good Samaritan Society Fort Collins Village, which includes Hoeger House. She attributed the differences to Good Samaritan's effort to cultivate good character.

O'Rourke did not know the Character First! vocabulary, but he wanted to thank particular individuals for the way they cared for him. So he dictated what he wanted to say, and Kitterman suggested a character quality and made up the certificates. Kitterman also arranged with human resources director Diana Schultz to present the certificates at an April 13 staff meeting.

Get the Help You Need

As the meeting began, Schultz called Kitterman and O'Rourke forward, and with O'Rourke sitting nearby, Kitterman read, "Thank you Darryl [McBroom] for all the prompt, courteous consideration you gave me while transporting me all over town. You always did your best to meet my needs. Thank you very much."

He recognized occupational therapist assistant Pam Cipri for her gentleness. "Pam is always very professional. She is skillful, helpful, and empathetic. She has helped prepare me for the everyday tasks that I will encounter when I go home."

Be Thorough

The Good Samaritan Fort Collins Village employs about 70 people and has 58 skilled nursing beds, 28 assisted living apartments, and one senior living duplex
Good Samaritan Fort Collins Village
O'Rourke also recognized physical therapists Bob Goodman and Leann Walters; registered nurses Marjorie Morningstar, Janet LeGros, Samantha Sabo, Mark Portel, and Amanda Faycosh; and certified nursing assistants Jerica Trevena, Missy Daves, and Alexys Kippenhan.

When asked why he didn't read and present the certificates himself, Bob said, "I couldn't have kept myself together to do that."

In conclusion, O'Rourke received a certificate recognizing him for gentleness-"showing consideration and personal concern for others." Several staff members added their own notes to the certificate.

Night nurse Janet LeGros said, "Even though he was very sick, he always looked at each person as an individual and as someone that he wanted to get to know, and he made you feel special in everything he did."

By Robert Powell with Loren Paulsson

 


Bob O'Rourke's Character Certificate
 from the Good Samaritan Society (page 1)

Bob O'Rourke's character certificate

(Page 2)

Bob O'Rourke's character certificate


Useful Links